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March 29, 2007 by Rev. Sean McMillan.

Religion and spirituality is not the same thing. As we study the life and ministry of Jesus Christ it is clear to see that he was not invested in the task of furthering the aims of religion but was rather dedicated to bringing people into real relationship with God. And this is what spirituality is all about. To be spiritual is to be in real communion with God. It is a way of life and not a moment, a place, or a ritual one might observe or practice within a particular tradition. True spirituality is a perspective available to any one who would dare to be in intimate relationship with the living God. Spirituality is a lifestyle and as a lifestyle it is defined by ones ability to see the hand of God moving across the landscape of our lives without regard to race, class, gender, orientation, or geography. Spiritual people are not better than anyone else but in their hunger for God they have developed the ability to sense the presence of God in the strangest places and view their lives through the eyes of eternity and not the temporal distinctions that divide us one from another.
The path to true spirituality begins with love. Whenever a man or a woman begins to love the God of their salvation and not just fear him, there is available to that man or woman a power that will never be found in religion. Jesus taught us that we should love God with all of our heart, with all of our mind, and with all of our soul; and he did so because he understood that it is only in the presence of love that we become greater than ourselves. Jesus understood that the only way to truly measure the success of a life was to measure it in love because it is only in the presence of love that we become most like God.
What do you love? Is your relationship with God about love or is it about need? When did you know that it was love and not just religion?
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March 8, 2007 by Rev. Sean McMillan.
Two weeks ago I was in New Orleans for a Pastors conference and spent the better part of my time in the lower ninth ward. You do remember the lower ninth don’t you? How could any of us forget what happened in New Orleans over a year ago when the levies broke and for four days thousands of people were stranded in the streets of a major American city without food or water? How could any of us forget what we saw on television that week or how we felt as the coming days brought no relief to the victims of Katrina and the people of New Orleans in particular. And as I stood on the saddest soil in the United States of America I could hear the melancholy music of the levies, the sweet sound of conscience, and the requiem of some inner voice reminding me of why God loved King and Gandhi, Mother Teresa and Mary the Mother of Christ. They were all great souls; and in the ordinary expression of their greatness they found the courage to live for something greater than themselves. We need you to shine. People who have never met you and will never see your face need you to spread your wings in tight places so that the power to fly will be real to them. The children of Bangladesh and the Sudan need to hear of how you refused to dim your light even amid the horrors of an unspeakable situation so that somewhere in the bruising darkness they will feel the glow of what you do and know that life will make away.
And lastly, the people of New Orleans need you to remember their cause. Keep shining like the sun-the world needs you.
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March 8, 2007 by Rev. Sean McMillan.

Isn’t it funny how you can be right on the edge of the greatest moment in your life and not even know it. After years of crawling and struggling to make it you would think that we would intuitively know that something profoundly good was about to happen but often it is only after we have been delivered that we are able to look back and trace the truth of how we got here. Sometimes victory comes with all the sensations of the defeat. Sometimes God has to take your sight before he can restore your vision; but the truth of the matter is we never know. We never know when this might be the day that it all comes together. Or that this might be the exact moment in our lives when it all makes sense and we emerge from the shadows ready to fly.
I would have you to know that possibility is real. It is not just a word or an idea created in a dark room by men who were themselves too afraid of the light to live. Ask the Butterfly. The next time you see a butterfly ask her if she has any memory of what her life was like before she learned how to fly and she will tell you no. Ask her to recall the exact moment that she realized that she was about to become beautiful and she will answer your questions with silence, partly because she was always beautiful, but mostly because just like you, life never tells us when something good is about to happen.
This is why we have to keep on living. This is why we have to keep on believing that midnight can not last forever and truth crushed down to earth will rise again. You owe it to yourself to go a little further. And while it is true that the journey can make you weary, it is also the case that in the end it will make you strong. In a little while everything will be different. In a little while you won’t even remember what it was like to crawl so close to the ground. What used to make you cry is about to make you dance; and I can’t wait to see you fly. I can’t wait to see the look of satisfaction on your face the first time you feel the soft secure squeeze of earth between your toes and you whisper to yourself - I finally made it!
This is not for giving up. This is for light at the end of the tunnel; because just when the caterpillar thought it was over it became a butterfly.
May the oil of your life be full of his grace.
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March 8, 2007 by Rev. Sean McMillan.

And I wish I could tell you that one day all of your issues will be resolved but nothing about human history leads me to believe that this is a realistic expectation. Even in the bible great men and women were constantly struggling with their issues, and apart of what made them great is the fact that they took the sadness of their inner conflicts and transformed what should have been something dark and full of dissonance into something remarkably melodious and beautiful.
None of us are perfect–but we can use the worst in us to make the best in us come alive. Sometimes before we can help–we must hurt. Your weaknesses keep you humble, they keep you grounded; and if you let them, they can also make you great; because anything that has the power to make you weep has also the power to make you reach for the living God.
These are the issue of our lives; and each morning as we rise to face the coming of the day, we do so knowing all the while that there lurks beneath the surface of the smiles we bare a reason to cry…But we choose to smile anyway.
Now that’s a Giant Step.
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